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"I was going to write this long and involved post here, detailing all sorts fo stuff and hashing it out in great detail. I spent much of my time at work today writing it out in my head and thinking out how Iwas going to put it.
But honestly, it boils down to one simple thing.
If I feel someway or if something is happening or not happening due to my own actions (or lack thereof), then I have no right to whine about it.
If I'm lonely but spend my time at the apartment or online rather than out being social it is my own fault.
If I don't have an SO, nor any prospects for said same, because I don't go meet ppl or persue/interact with ppl I am interested in, then it is my own fault.[1]
If my life seems sorta dull, but I don't go out and do new and interesting things, then it is my own fault.
So go DO something Pix, or shut up about it, even in your own head."
(not that I am going to be doing much in the social department in the very near future, as I am in the throes of creation on the Nova, meaning I'm out til 8-9pm working on it, and grimy, messy, sore,and tired once I'm done.)
[1]side note, there was going to be a grand martyr-ish bit about someone whom I am very interested in but whom doesn't seem to be interested in me. But honestly, while it sucks for me, that is in the end simply her choice and no amount of whining to myself will affect it.
But honestly, it boils down to one simple thing.
If I feel someway or if something is happening or not happening due to my own actions (or lack thereof), then I have no right to whine about it.
If I'm lonely but spend my time at the apartment or online rather than out being social it is my own fault.
If I don't have an SO, nor any prospects for said same, because I don't go meet ppl or persue/interact with ppl I am interested in, then it is my own fault.[1]
If my life seems sorta dull, but I don't go out and do new and interesting things, then it is my own fault.
So go DO something Pix, or shut up about it, even in your own head."
(not that I am going to be doing much in the social department in the very near future, as I am in the throes of creation on the Nova, meaning I'm out til 8-9pm working on it, and grimy, messy, sore,and tired once I'm done.)
[1]side note, there was going to be a grand martyr-ish bit about someone whom I am very interested in but whom doesn't seem to be interested in me. But honestly, while it sucks for me, that is in the end simply her choice and no amount of whining to myself will affect it.
